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You Can Have What You Want: Simple Strategies to Attract All the Good Things in Life!


We could write pages about the things that we do not want in our lives. For examples, we do not want to be alone; we do not want to be unhappy; we do not want to be afraid; we do not want to be unloved. But when you think about these things, you are actually starting to attract these same 'bad things' into your life.

1) Forget about what you do not want

What works better is the idea of not thinking about what you do not want in your life. That sounds more complicated than it actually is. Instead of complaining about the things that you lack in your life, it is time to start looking at the things that you do have or the things that you will have in your life.

What if you do not have a lovely bride? Focus on the idea that in the future, you will.

What if you do not yet have a boyfriend? Focus on the idea that you soon will meet him.

What you are doing is choosing to be content with your life as it is and to be excited about the things that you find in your life, even if they are not exactly what you want at this time.

Many people have found that writing down their life story the way they want it to happen can help to change their thinking from 'what I do not have' to 'what I will have.' Write down your life story as you want it to unfold and then read it to yourself whenever you start to think as though something is missing.

Remind yourself that while you might not have something NOW, you will have it SOON. That will attract the people that you want to date instead of focusing on the fact that you are single and unhappy about it.

2) Surround yourself with good

If you want beautiful women or handsome men in your life, why be around anything less than that? When you are looking to create a relationship that includes you with a gorgeous partner, you need to surround yourself with people that want the same things as you do.





You want to surround yourself with gorgeous people - even if you do not plan on dating any of them.

The reason this works to help you attract other people is that others will see that you are with beautiful people and wonder why they are hanging out with you. This will attract more attractive people to your group, increasing your chances of dating someone that you really desire.

But this is not all about beauty either.

You can also choose to be with all positive and fun-loving people in order to attract more fun-loving folks to be near you.


1 Responses to “You Can Have What You Want: Simple Strategies to Attract All the Good Things in Life!”

Allis said...
3 January 2012 at 23:32

I want to attract more people and...more opportunities~imitazioni orologi


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